Tuesday 14 November 2017

When you focus on want you want, other things just fall away

I have recently read ‘Walking on Water’ by Jennifer Miskov and would highly recommend it to anyone who wants to be challenged to live a life outside of the boat, a life where Jesus is the sole focus and where he needs to turn up or else! 

The book challenged me on many levels but also created an excitement in me as I realised that I was made to live life like this.  I was made to rely on Jesus in every circumstance and to risk everything to be closer to him.  Wow!  How amazing is that?  I was created to live an adventurous and risktaking life with Jesus.  I was never designed for the mundane, but like Peter, to walk on water as I look to Jesus and seek to grow in intimacy with him.  This is so good! 

So, as one of the challenges Jennifer suggest that you fast from social media for a week as it can become a distraction.  I don’t spend much time on social media (I use Facebook and Instagram) but I had begun to realise that I could look at the apps on my phone many times a day, even if just for a minute or two.   It wasn’t the time I was spending that was an issue but the fact that I realised that if I had a moment or two spare during the day, the first thing I reached for was social media.  This is not what I want!  I want all my spare moments to be focussed on Jesus and not on how many likes my latest post has or what the latest video is that’s going viral! 

As a result of this, Jennifer’s suggestion of a social media fast came at a good time for me.  I decided though that if I really wanted to make a difference in my life and to train myself away from using social media in my spare moments then I needed to do a little more than a week.  I decided on 21 days as they say if you do something for 21 days it becomes a habit. 

I thought it might be hard but that just wasn’t the case.  From the moment I decided to do it, it was just something I was doing.  I deleted the apps from my phone and that was that.  There was no going cold turkey as I went to check them but they weren’t there.  I had just made a decision and that was that.  In fact, when it came time for me to break my fast I didn’t straight away as I just was not that bothered about being back on social media.

During my social media fast I did find myself more present in the moment as I was not continually distracted by checking Facebook and Instagram but was just enjoying what I was doing.  It was so freeing.  It was such a blessing and is something I will do again, whenever I feel like it is becoming a distraction.

It’s not that social media is bad and I love that I can keep up with friends all over the world with it.  I love that there is lots of encouraging and inspirational stuff posted too.  However, I have come to a place where I want to have social media work for me and not me for it.  So, from here on in I will go on one or two times a week and that is it and continue to live my life enjoying the moment!


Happy heart!  Blessed indeed!